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What I like about you...you keep me warm at night

Loving you

What I like about you?...

Do you ever ask yourself this question when you're thinking about your significant other?

I never used to...

However, lately, I find myself asking that question about Sweet very often. It's not that I am looking for any form of confirmation of why I am in love with her but it's more along the lines of finding more and more reasons why I am in love with her. Believe me, they tend to keep adding up as the days go by.

Surprisingly...I was very amazed at how many reasons pop up just off the top of my head

Things like:

  • Eye Color (Her eyes are this beautiful blend of blue and green...They make me melt
  • The way her glasses rest on the bridge of her nose...it's highly sexy and intoxicating and I don't even know why...
  • The way her hair looks in the morning when she first wakes up. It's never really messy, it just lays there so elegantly and gracefully...matched with her eyes she looks so much like a goddess when she first wakes up...
  • Facial Expressions, she has this thing where when she gets annoyed she purses her lips and her eyes get smaller and she gets this sort of seductive but 'tasty' look on her face. I so just want to bite her on the nose and squeeze the hell out of her...hold her tight against my body...oh lordy...
  • The way she eats her meals. It's a true treat to get to watch her eat. Anything from burritos and sammiches to cereal and pizza. I love watching her.
  • Her arguing skills...Oh, my GOD, can she argue with me. She frustrates the hell out of me and makes me so mad but at the same time, I love it...Because it reminds me that I am not dating a dumbass but I am dating a real woman that has her own ideas and thoughts and for the hell of it...I can't break her. I love how hard headed she is...it makes me happy to know that she will keep me on my toes and won't take any shit from anyone, myself included.
  • Handling my insecurities. I tend to go through bouts where it's not so much that I am insecure about myself as a person or what I have to offer but its more so that I tend to think about all of the what-ifs that could possibly happen. For the most part, just hearing her voice makes me feel a lot better about what ever situation I had been worrying about. 
  • She sings...to me. I love her voice and her singing sounds like an angel whispering in my ear. 
  • She nags me...I love it. However, there are times where I have to laugh at it because a lot of the things she nags me about, I have to also nag her about. Like eating, sleeping, drinking proper amounts of fluids, eating the right type of foods. Seeing as how we both have special dietary aspects that we need to pay close to attention to.

Those are just a handful of things that fall off the tip of my tongue when I think about all the things I like love about Sweet.

She makes me feel warm, even on the coldest of nights. Inside and out. 

However, I can say that I am curious to why she makes me so happy. I haven't been able to peg what exactly it is about her that makes me feel the way that she makes me feel...but one thing is for sure...she's damn good at it. 






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